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Career + Mental Health Emily Betz Career + Mental Health Emily Betz

Healthy Boundaries

This sentiment shows up quite frequently in therapy sessions, specifically with women. For many of us, the desire to be liked by others is so strong that we derive self-worth & value from pleasing others, and we prioritize this over our own needs & mental health.

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Career + Mental Health Emily Betz Career + Mental Health Emily Betz

Alone Time: Falling In Love with Ourselves

ave never had a problem with being alone.  Actually, I find that many people enjoy alone time, but the fear of being judged for spending time alone holds us back.  What is it about being alone that is embarrassing, or that we, as a culture find sad? While loneliness is an epidemic in our country, there is a difference between being lonely and alone.  I firmly believe that we, especially women,  need solitude to process emotions, unstructured time to let the mind wander and to simply affirm sense of self. 

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Career + Mental Health Emily Betz Career + Mental Health Emily Betz

Let it Out: The Therapeutic Benefits of Crying

It was the first day of school, and we were running late. I had *the audacity* to believe that I could sneak in a workout, make coffee, take a shower, get my son ready for school and get that Insta-worthy first day pic (you know the one, with the sign accompanied by the bright, beaming smile of our future generations bestowing hope to all of the interwebs?)

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Career + Mental Health Emily Betz Career + Mental Health Emily Betz

Bringing It Home: Building a shared vision for your financial futures

In the last 30 days, can you recall a time when you weren't on the same page financially with your partner? 40% of of divorces are a result of financial incompatibility. Have you aligned your spending habits, financial goals, income dynamic/imbalance, asset dynamic/imbalance? Values are relatively permanent personal beliefs about what we regard as important or desirable and tend to reflect our upbringing and change very little throughout our lifetime without conscious effort. Conflict results when values and spending are not aligned.

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Career + Mental Health Emily Betz Career + Mental Health Emily Betz

10 Tips for Building Resilience

Have you ever wondered how palm trees are able to withstand the strong, treacherous conditions of hurricanes? They are designed to bend and flex, but not to break. And when the storm has passed, scientists have proven that palm trees are actually stronger than they were before the storm. Flexibility and adaptability in the face of adversity can strengthen humans as well.

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